Parent Management Training (PMT)

If you’re parenting a 7-12 year old who seems to argue about everything, melts down over limits, ignores directions, or turns everyday moments into exhausting power struggles, you may feel like you’ve tried everything (charts, rewards, consequences, books, advice from well-meaning people) and nothing is sticking. It's totally defeating.

 

We totally get this and we talk to parents feeling this way every day. The very very hopeful news is: if you haven't tried formal Parent Management Training-real, comprehensive, and structured parent management training (not just therapy that incorporates some parenting skills)-then you haven't tried the most effective treatment available to you. 

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Why does PMT work so well?

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In short, because it teaches you (the parents) exactly what to do to improve things  (rather than traditional therapy that teaches your child coping tools). PMT doesn’t rely on your child remembering to use tools or “make better choices” when emotions are already running high - which, let’s be honest, isn’t realistic for most kids (or adults). Instead, PMT focuses on getting parents on the exact same page by coaching you to create new systems and respond to your child in new ways. When you consistently respond in new, effective ways, the environment in your home will shift and your child's behavior will improve. 

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PMT will give you clear, practical strategies that will actually fit realistically into family life. You’ll learn tools that reduce daily battles, increase cooperation, and foster a calmer, more connected relationship with your child.

 

Sessions are typically parent-only, which gives you space to talk honestly, ask questions, and problem-solve. Your therapist will teach and model strategies, help you fine-tune what’s working, and support you as you practice. 

Between sessions, you’ll try the skills at home. We'll troubleshoot together, adjust as needed, and celebrate progress along the way. Well before this fast-acting 12-week (on average) treatment is over, you can expect things at home to feel much more peaceful, predictable, and connected.